At one point or another, most of us have been on a date with someone who is basically a perfect 10 in our eyes… good job, good looks, funny, they text you good morning and the future is looking bright; until they do that one thing that makes them instantly go from a 10 to a 5 and you never want to see them again.
This question was posed on Reddit recently… so its safe to say that if you want to find love, you may want to avoid doing this:
1 – Arrogance
From @_youllneverknow on Reddit: “100% this. I’ll never forget a compliment a gave to a guy I was dating once, said something like “I’ve never felt this way before”… He deadass responded to me with “that’s because I’m not like the rest of them, I have a certain ‘je ne sais quoi’ about me. And I’m not just saying that because I speak fluent French”. Instant turn off”.
2 – Talking over people
3 – Being rude to waiters
4 – Poor hygiene
5 – Shoving your political or religious views down someone’s throat
6 – Littering
From @Cakes-and-Pies on Reddit: “Littering is a hard and fast no-go for me. Friends, professors, bosses, other people’s children – I’ll correct them all with the quickness. It’s not a “turn off” per se, but a sadness. Don’t forget to be the change you want to see and speak up. Be polite but firm. “Excuse me, you dropped that. There’s a garbage can over there.” (Unless it’s a child, in which case add in a “we don’t do that.”)”.
7 – No personal interests
From @oo-mox83 on Reddit: “I had one of those a while back. No favorite show, no favorite type of music, no hobbies, just agreeable all the time. He was sweet but man, he was boring.”
8 – Smoking
9 – Lying
10 – Constantly Putting Yourself Down
From @windysunshine on Reddit: “Negative self talk, constantly putting yourself down and then some do it to get compliments to boost their egos, but in the end it is so classless”.
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